I love him so much and I dont want to leave him but no matter what I say he wont stop talking to women on craigslist. Youve been with him for more than half your life, but I believe you have the strength to live without him. i think is good that you found out about his game, dont tell him you know he is having an affairs, play your card wisely , do not panic and approach the other lady, calm down and think of your future. He didnt answer any of my calls nor did he return my calls as he usually does. Be very careful who you trust. The email said meet me in the gym at 12.15..you own me a pilates class. He has these blow up sessions where he will freak out on me when he finds out ive been threw his stuff. Someone even told me the could be swingers. He said this girls relatives were there and they spoke for 15 minutes or so. Its definitely disturbing. When I confronted him same act the mad mood. im currently doing a research for my new website on the subject and this was a great article! Hi. Please can any one give me advise on this.. My boyfriend Ive been and lived with for 15 years also have 3 kids with use to come home hurt me bad physically his favorite thing was strangulation and suffocation hes been to prison for it more then once his answers were always I was crazy I made everything up the emotional abusive way almost unmanageable he rejected me and are kids with out a care everyday Ill never be the same after being in prison 2 years hes back and no more violence but rejection and emotionally detached since he got out a year ago still continues badly he truly shows no emotion that he cares with I could understand why someone would still be this way? It is hurtful. I look great for my age and look much younger than most 55 year old women. I was able to read those because I knew his password. As soon as he is back at work, I decide to sniff around. Should tell me something, huh? I believe that if you think your husband is cheating, then he probably is. According to this page. When I questioned it he flipped on me. Now as I am older with 6 grandkids that we truly love and enjoy, I dont think I do want to know the details..There are not enough years left in my life to hold all the tears. In the pictures they appear in close proxity. Are you serious!!!!! Found out husband had 2nd affair with same girl He begged for me to stay This was 4 years ago told and he still has not come clean He has been really sweet lately Told him I can not get past it if he cannot be open & honest Recently and in past he told he does not care how I feel Where do I go from here if not out the door Recently he, My husband cheated threw my trust right out the door It has been 4 years i told them both they could have each other. You are worthy of better!! Going through it was the worst experience, sleepness nights, fear, doubts- and four years later life is better but Trust is just not there anymore. (Well, I actually think the most important relationship is with God, but thats a whole different animal :-) ). Now it has been almost a year that my husband do not show felings, he doesnt tell me he loves me, we dont do any kind of activity together. Please help! He said he never got that feeling from her either. I found out he cheated in the past because he has two girls younger than our children. He is very handsome, and I always tell him how attractive he is. Also the fact is that we had LOVE MARRIAGE . May you find faith for the journey, and trust in God to guide you through. But I am also terrified of investing more time and energy into someone who has let me down this early on in our relationship and risking getting hurt even more later. Is it okay to say that generally men dont require commitment the way a woman does? Met woman on craigslist for sexting and video sex. Does the woman saying something to me mean anything? Please help with words of in courgment. I wanna break this relation but i am thinking about the kid. Girl, hes cheating. Im 24 and im a male. That he told her do to that. I have tried speaking to my wife about it many times but her attitude is what we did before was the past and what we do now is how it is and deal with it. we all deserve to live and be loved. I have since uncovered lots of other information which proves him and her are guilty as charged! Even now after three months he says he is physically not attracted to her anymore. our first four years have been very challenging, we both drank alot and would argue alot, he never tried to get close to me emotionally, mentally,or physically. And what about my sister, do I tell her what her fiance is sending to my husband? But lately he is almost admitting to me that he has an affair, and that he is staying with me for the kids, and that when they grow up he will leave me, my youngest daughter is 7. So when he went to the strip club 3 weeks after I delivered, I asked him did he have fun. I can say that you know the answer to the question on whether he was faithful or not on your honeymoon. Of course long distance relationship is hard, yet not impossible. I still dont know if Im getting the whole truth. Hear are 5 tips that you man is cheating. He asked me if I put it there but I denied it. I hurt and want to get away from him. Well I didnt like that one bit mostly because I knew she was his ex and I just never felt comfortable with it, and no matter what I said or did he would still talk and text her, I told him that I felt like he was disrespecting me which he would shrug at. Thank you for the comments and your insight. He thought I wouldnt say anything. STay strong! Never feel like you cannot ask him to leave. You will have to leave sooner or later, it might as well be now. what i would advise you to do is to definitely read more about the subject and do your research before you convince yourself that youre just being a paranoind.. You can start by clicking on my nickname in the comment headline (Spouse Cheat) right now, D O N T T A L K T O H I M A B O U T I T ! I checked his Facebook page while I was at it. I am still very angry and hurt. In the last few months my husbands behavior has changed, consistant flirting, he tells half truths or white lies and when I complain about his behavior toward other women he gets very aggressive professing hes not doing anything. I have been married for 17 yrs and found out about a year and half ago that my husband had two different women emailing him pictures of themselves naked. He says she was fun to be with. (sitting beside eachther at bar, excursions, lunch, walking along beach) yet he says he doesnt know her that she was a stranger. if yes why cant you see until you finish the counselling process result and decide, i cant advice you for devorce but this depend to you, sit with your husband and solve the problem this is a very small somthing just becouse there is another woman involved, are they having kids together? He said that her Dad said call her phone if he doesnt answer. But when things werent going as she wanted she texted me to tell me about everything. We become somewhat cynical and lose the ability to completely trust always thinking in the back of our mind, their unfaithfulness could happen again. This left me confused because since I gave birth to our son I have lost 40lbs, found a job that pays me will, not well enough to support us without his help, and I have taken steps to continue my education. Stacey how did you put tracker on his phone without him knowing my husbands is password protected and they have to except thanks for the help pam. I am even pregnant, I have unpacked my bags because I cant stand going on a four days vacation with him knowing he just cheated on me. What really can crash a feeble marriage is lack of communication. I found he is on hook up sites. Surprisingly, 48% say theyre missing an emotional connection at home, so they cheat on their wives. He wrote The Truth about Cheating because he wanted to empower women by showing them how men think which includes why husbands cheat on their wives. well she done had the 3rd kid and he is now 3 months old and he is still bouncing back and forth between me and her so i told him he is either going to choose me or her again not even a month went by i went through my phone records cuz i paid for him to have a phone and i found a number i didnt recognize and i called it come to find out he had been talking to another girl and been hanging out wit her so i went and met her and she showed me all the txt messages she was straight up honest wit me so evidently 2 of us wasnt enough he needed 3 women in his life and i come to find out that im pregnant with his child and through all of this his baby mama wit the 3 she found out i was going to have his child so she took her 3 kids and left finally she was gona it was jus me and him things were finally going good i was starting to trust him then he goes to jail for 2 days and i go and get him out and he swore up and down to me that things were going to be different so 2 weeks before my due date to have our child i go back to my house for a couple days and go to my doctor appt alone again and i find out that he had been talking to his other baby mama and she was now back down at his house living there again so i leave for 2 days and he brings her back so i told him that he would regret that for the rest of his life and he is because he didnt get to see his son born. He says, if Im going to treat him like crap then hes not going to do anything for me. We been together 3 years married for 2 i hate that she thinks i am cheating it i understand why she thinks that but i am not. He has admitted, he never thought hed get caught. He flat out tries to lie and deny but I know better. All these comments are heart breaking. Is it even possible to have him fall in love with me again, or should I leave and give up on him ever loving me again? They had communicated a couple of times because shes a drama queen and needed to make a production about telling him she was getting married and when she got pregnant. If he has a smart phone (either an android or an iPhone) you will just download an application that keeps track of information that you can access whenever you want from your own smartphone or computer. We saw each other once or twice a week (I now live across the state of CT so we cant see each other too much more). WRONG second marriage I now have a 9 month old daughter with him. sometimes when we woman are too much questioning men we pushing them far. He stays alone, I stay alone and the ex stays with their 2 kids. I know its not easy but he doesnt live close anyway so cut the cord so you are free to find someone who really loves you! Now I find out that the one he met while he was in Italy is not a lesbian like they both said, in fact she gets into detail about being with other guys and how it was with him. He said he was going to eat and be up in a minute, but then he was on the computer. He denies bit I know for a fact he is helping her get into the house by keeping me occupied and distracting me vivdont fall for it anymore but I do know when something is going on. All the proof was on his credit card from work. You need substantial evidence. That very day i went to my flat think of what i am benefiting, in this relationship, how many times was i happy ,upset, angry , empty promised. then afew eeks later he has another text saying good im glad shes lucky yo have you x then i confront him and he tells me its her and he forgot to delete bob i said do you think im an idiot i try and forget in the back of mind i find something our sex life non exsistant and he starts not looking after himself so yet again i say no sex until you start washing your a grown man .. 2 yrs and i m struggling then out the blue this year 2012 i send the number of this woman a text saying happy new year and she text bac just happy new year .. then i say this is steve .. she did make a comment has if they hadnt spoken for a few years .. but then i say i remember our chats and kisses in the van she replied i didnt think you would remember ..then i found out they were slyly meeting up in 2004 when i was engaged to him and on valentines day he invited her over he said we had split up but he was always over my house .. saying he loved me i found out they went upstairs but chatted on the bed and she said we did do something but i didnt know what i just got mad at her when i asked him to call to find out i made him do it i look bac and dont know what to do i think he says he only kissed her but they met in secret places you wouldnt just meet for a peck on the lips and a chat about work all this has come round again he decided to bring that woman back into his life to text him his calls and when the lorry leaves to text him so he gets there on time and if he didnt text ba for her to wake him im fumming has he ased her to phone him when he is in our bed and i found out there history together the question i asked is why did you want to bring her bac into your life he says i dont know i didnt really need to is that telling me something im devasted and dont know whether we can survive after the harstache we went through any comments appreciated, How do I know if hes cheating again? I decided to do my own thing as far as dating. He has had a phone relationship. 2. A sign your husband is lying about cheating is the frequently used words on his phone. Him and I got into a very heated argument a couple weeks ago. I am 100% and completely amazed by the fact that you posted this!!?? Why keep on trying when nothing gets better. I have no way of catching him at anything he hides his browsing history on his computer, etc. My parents think we should stay together. To my amazement he had been telling women that the only reason he was on there was to have sex. The pictures on her profile were all bikini pictures. Tell me he loved me. There could be others as well. We were fighting a lot of the time but I still needed intimacy and he refused for months. I was very upset with my husband but he keeps telling me nothing happened whenever i bring it up but the story always changes. I looked at him and with a heavy heart I said okay. Please give me advice thank u. I couldnt handle being told he didnt love me, had no desire for sex with me, its been almost a year and a half since we had sex. I think most women who feel cheated, just want to know if their husband had an affair, in order to make a good decision on whether to stay or leave. Thank you in advance for any advice you can give. Hes asked what can he do to fix this. I think talking to someone who is objective in-person, not online is the best way to work through feelings of suspicion, hurt, rejection, etc. Hi Jan Of course women cheat! He controls my every move. How to Be Your Own Private Investigator https://www.theadventurouswriter.com/quipstipsrelationships/is-he-cheating-how-to-be-a-private-investigator/. I refused to abort and he would kick me on my stomach during pregnancy. What would you advise your friend to do, if she was in this situation? But little did he know I had the texts between the two of them proving that she wasnt crazy and that he was a liar. Biology makes men want to have as many kids as possible, so they cheat withas many female partners as possible. He would always tells me hes always tired. then we have to live apart for a while beacuse he is selling his house .. i have our daughter and i had a bad labour felt ill for weeks then i find out my daughter has a heart problem and has to have major heart surgery at 7 weeks old . Love yourself. Do you think he loves me or am i just a doormat? Then he got into this role playing game second life online and he is maintaining relationships with women who play this game. I was a stay home mom until we agree to get divorce.now I dont know. I tell him I love him. Well fast forward to about 2 months ago. How do I know shes out of the picture? six months ago, i bumped into his whatssap conversation where he was telling a lady that can he come and show her his big blah blah blah. A few times, late night. For years, your husband has been living a lie. I doubt he believes me because he said it was still recording but he did not know how to turn it off. His excuse was always that he wanted a run home but his employer wanted him to stay on the road. She does not believe he feels there is a problem. I have tried talking to him to see why he has become uninterested in me. Any advice would be appreciated. So go F yourself.. I am disabled living on SS with no money to spare and they steal my transportation. I wish I had known everything before we were married. He does have a job that seems to have him out of the house a lot. Hi my name is April. She would critesise me on things likeIf i see someone doing somthing wrong and I talk to her about it, she replies with something els I did wrong. I cant even tell if hes lying because hes good at conceiving people. Help! My boyfriend is having more than 7 girlfriend. my husband gets mad when i ask him to do anything, i am 5 1/2 months pregnant and high risk. Start paying close attention to detail. If he ask you how did you know just tell him you hired a private investigator or what even but again dont reveal your source even in your friend just keep this to your self. If you have further questions, feel free to ask! We planned both of our children and as recently as yesterday he was talking about trying for a girl. He told me that a few days before I left for vacation, this girl called him at work leaving a message that she was in town and that he could stop by to see her. But here we are 4 months later, things have gotten much better but I still find myself afraid that its going to happen again, I wish for this feeling to all go away, i wish it never happened but it did. Some women think theyll never find another guy BS. I hope that helps. All the signs were there, not having sex with me, locking doors, staying at work late, with no explanation why he was out late, letting me not to touch his phone, putting a menu in front of his face when this woman walked into the restaurant we were eating at, even went to a company baseball game, he said there was a woman that wanted to meet me, she gave me the dirtiest look, and he was standing way behind us, when I turned around to see where my husband was at he was giving her a look I have never seen before in him. The Holy Spirit will reveal all things. He's not going to change his character-assassinating . 7) The day after I found the photos, I told him I did not trust him. Karen, I really think you need to ask him about his odd behavior. Now that hes back I assumed everything would be better. 1. Hi. So when you say to check his phone and email I already do so he would know how to hide it really good specially sense he knows a lot about computers. Will you teach your son that this is how to treat a woman? Until 2 years ago I thought that I could trust him emphatically. Some of them will deny an affair even if you present them with hard evidence. Back offhe didnt know how to tell you that he didnt want you working with him without hurting you and causing you to massively over react. TThis IS also deceptive but where the trust, respect, is already broken, I figure its all fair game. He said she is just a friend dont you have friends. at his work place. So if you do decide to wing it alone for a while keep these important things in mind and if you befriend the opposite sex during the separation consider them nothing more than just a friend. One night after returning from taking care of my mother, we got home , and he asked me to do something. She was my friend. He told me he secretly emailed an old friend for 4 weeks, but did not see her in person other than that one time. Gone for over 10vdays. It was as if I was a chore or a roommate. Someone else has already put in the time, effort and commitment. And the truth is, it doesnt matter what I think. Because lately all he seams interested in is video games, porn, and what ever he wants to do. For women, relationship happiness is paramount. So him and this guy was curious I guess. My little boy is 7 months now and my husband has not brought up his list to me again but then the other night he was very quiet and when I asked him what was wrong he said he did not want to talk about it because nothing ever changes. He and this girl stayed friends that whole time, and I was certain they would end up togetherbut they DIDNT. Relationship advice for women and men on quips and tips for love and relationships. He deleted Facebook only to learn he still had my space active. What you observe and what your boyfriend says to you isnt as important as what your spidey senses are telling you. Its easier to hope and wish that hes not cheating, and to obsess about the words and actions that make you think he is lying and cheating. I had a brief infidelity and lied to save face. He stopped inviting me to his company picnics 6. Its feels good to be bad and naughtythats in us!!! He always start agruments even in small things which always turn out to be a big issues between us. On top of all this he says he loves me and the other women were just mistakes as he was feeling rejected by me. Because of his schedule, I think its an emotional affair that he has not physically acted on yet. To think it began with Facebook and he allowed our life together to be contaminated by someone who was using him, the way he uses others. I too have been in this marriage for almost 20 years now. My husband went away on business the same weekend i took our daughters on a shopping trip, but my gut told me different. 11 Core Values in a Relationship and Why They Are Important, When to Let Go of a Long-Distance Relationship and How, 8 Signs Youre Not Sexually Compatible and How to Handle It, How to Overcome Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style, Lack of Communication in a Relationship: Causes, Effects, and Tips, What Makes a Man Want to Protect You? Its very clear. I need honesty to move forward, and I read that crack is very addictive. That is, if I thought he was cheating, he wouldnt bring it up again unless I did. What she liked more was that it hurt me, bothered me, upset me. I was having a miscarriage at that time and I wasnt aware of it. I think he uses emails to contact them via another online account and then uses another company truck to go to these appointments. why he deleted some and not all? His answer? 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